I’ve been single for a while, and I’m gonna say the thing that single, independent, Black, God-fearing, millennial women shouldn’t say. I’m tired of being single. But let’s be clear, I’m not desperate. And yes those two things can co-exist, because I’m not looking for just anybody. I, of course, want someone with substance, not […]

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I live a very busy life. I’m a PhD student, a therapist, and I am a part of the children’s, youth, counseling, and communication ministries at my church. Because I’m a therapist and I’m all about self-care, I try to take care of myself too. That includes spending time with friends, dancing, eating right, cooking […]

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